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Friday, May 26, 2017

Do Relationships Bring Happiness in a Person’s Life?



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Do Relationships Bring Happiness in a Person’s Life?

Definition of happiness

The short answer to this question is NO. But this does not mean that you cannot be happy in your relationships. What I mean is this, if you solely depending on your relationships or marriages to be happy in life, then you are setting yourself up for a frustrated and sad life.

The truth about happiness is that it is an inside job and you are the only one that can stimulate it in you.  When you are not able to do this, then you should forget about anyone giving it to you.

Secret of happy couples

When you see happy couples displaying their public show of passion and affection, you seem to wonder what the secret is that kept them together and happy. If you admire what you see, then know that attaining such happiness in relationship will take lots of work.

The work first will begin with you. You have to first change your perception that you need someone or a relationship to be happy. Happy couples are two happy individuals that come together to make themselves happier. And what this means is that they have found ways to be happy and fulfilled with themselves even before they came together in a relationship.

So you want to be happy, you have to start working on yourself to be happy with you. When you do this, it is now your choice to find a partner to share that joy with.

What self-love can do for you?

We are talking about find happiness in you; if you want to achieve this state, then you will learn to practice self-love. With self-love you get to appreciate yourself more and build your confidence that you don’t need someone to feel complete in your life because you were created whole.

You have to learn to pamper yourself, get engaged in your passion, improve yourself and make yourself a better you. When you are able to build your confidence and esteem through self-love, I want to believe that you will definitely attract to yourself a partner that will love you for whom you are and will want to share their world with you which is also a happy world.

Getting into relationship and marriages for the wrong reasons

The topic of discussion here is if relationships bring happiness. Questions like this gives us an insight to why many people get into relationships and marriages for the wrong reasons.

When you have the belief that you will only be happy in your marriages and relationships, you will enter into it to find out that this is not always the case.

What relying on people for happiness can do to you?

When you rely on people as a source of your happiness and joy, you see yourself being clingy and needy and when this happens, you are setting yourself up to be taken advantage of.

Because you are scared of losing that source of joy, you make yourself a slave to this person and this is why he or she will treat you like shit because they know you don’t have the guts to leave.

Why people get in to abusive relationships

Let us now take a look at why people get into abusive relationships when they had just come out of one.

Situations like these are the same with those that think that they can only find joy and love in a person or relationship. When their partners take advantage of them, it can get to the extent of their partners hitting them.

The abuser is most times not to be blamed. It does not mean that I support abuses in relationships, what I am trying to say is that when you change your perception and build yourself, you see your life attracting people that are less likely to be abusers because abusers don’t feel comfortable relating with confident people.

So rather than think that you can only find happiness in a relationship, why not try to discover love, happiness and fulfillment in you.

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Ejike John is a student of human characters and behaviors, a blogger, programmer, web developer and a lover of music. All he wants to do is write and get his name out there.